So part of being a photographer is being a part of a wonderful community of artists, other photographers that understand you! They get why your office is always a MESS, and why you can't seem to get anywhere on TIME and why you sometimes wander off into your own head to come back with an amazing IDEA! This past week when wandering around the photographer community boards there was a lot of buzz going around about the different things photographers desperately wish they're clients knew! That's when I decided to write a blog letting all you wonderful Mommy and Daddies to be in on a little inside information that will insure you have a wonderful Maternity and Newborn session and will help with your relationship with your wonderful photographer!
And so, without further ado, I bring to you some of the things that pretty much all photographers in the history of EVER wish you knew…
1. Your pictures will turn out better if you let me be in charge.
Hopefully you chose me to be your photographer because you like my images. When you try to micro-manage the shoot by telling me how to pose you or continuously ask to see the pictures in my camera, it makes me feel like you don’t trust me and instantly kills the mojo. I took ALL the pictures you see on my website without any help or direction. I know what a real smile looks like, I know where the light is best, and I know that you don’t want that fire hydrant to show up in the background of your picture. I’m good at this. Trust me.
2. All kids are crazy.
Nothing winds up parents faster than seeing their children misbehave or get a little crazy during a photoshoot, but I’m gonna let you in on a little secret: they ALL do! I need to excite and play with them in order to establish an authentic connection, but I am also great at calming them back down and centering their attention onto the camera when it’s time for pictures. There’s no need to stress that your children are being “bad”… they’re being kids and I honestly love the challenge!
3. Sweet Mama… please relax. You are not the exception.
I’m as guilty of it as anyone: I assume that No Person in the History of Ever could make me look beautiful in pictures. But guess what? I am not the exception. When I listen to my photographer and do exactly what she tells me to do, I often find that I LOVE the way I look when I see the final images. A good photographer knows how to position her subjects and herself to capture the most flattering pictures. If she tells you to put your chin down, for heaven’s sake, DO IT. She knows how to pose you so that you look as photogenic as the rest of ‘em.
4. Dad… I’m praying you will be kind to your family… and to me.
It’s one of the most common topics on behind-the-scenes photographer forums: fussy, grumpy dads. So let me give it to you straight: Dad, I already know that this is not on your Top Ten List of Favorite Things To Do on a Saturday Morning, but it’s one hour and you’re here, so why not make the best of it? I’ve always found that the dad’s attitude can make or break the shoot… if he’s low-key and showing a little love, Mom inevitably relaxes and the photos reflect a genuine family connection. If he’s uptight, cranky, and critical, Mom is stressed and the tension trickles down to every last child. No one wants to look back at their family photos and remember how everyone was walking on eggshells around Dad. I promise to make the shoot as painless as possible… I’ve got your back.
5. I know the shoot means a lot to you. It means a lot to me, too.
I think the majority of photo session anxiety stems from the assumption that your pictures couldn’t possibly be as important to the me as they are to you, but let me make a case for why that’s not necessarily true: When I photograph your family, I’m in my purest state of “flow”… creativity and passion connect to create something beautiful. I can get downright giddy when I capture a beautiful shot, and am driven like no other to do it again and again. If that doesn’t convince you, consider the fact that the images that I take of your family represent my work when you show them to your friends and family… I want it to look AMAZING!
6. I will spend hours reliving your shoot, image-by-image.
Culling is the process in which the photographer goes through the pictures, image by image, and chooses which pictures will make the final cut. If the shoot was light-hearted and genuine, this process makes me smile and laugh out loud. If the parents were cranky and strung-out, my stomach will be in knots as I walk back through your shoot, image-by-image. PS… If you think you might need to trim that nosehair, the best time to do it is before the shoot. I will be up-close and personal with ALL of your faces in every last picture.
7. I get butterflies before your shoot.
8. It hurts my feelings when you joke about my pricing.
When you imply that my prices are getting too high, it feels like you’re saying that my work isn’t worth what you’re paying. I’m quite sensitive about my pricing and it feels incredibly vulnerable to have to put a price on my passion and art. There are so many parts of running a business that I can’t expect you to know about: taxes, equipment, website fees… these are just a few of the things I’m desperate to tell you about when you make a joke that “this hour had better be amazing because we sure are paying for it…” I can’t, of course, so I try to remember that you probably don’t understand all the costs involved in running a small business and continue on with your session.
9. I’m waiting on pins and needles to hear your feedback about the pictures from your session.
By the time I’ve chatted with you about your session, spent an hour with you, loving on your kids and capturing your family, and relived the shoot through culling and editing, I’m invested. I keep your specific hopes and dreams in mind through the entire process, and I am literally DYING to know if you’re happy with the finished photos. a “These are beautiful” or even “I love most of them… just wish we had gotten the three kids walking away!”… it fills in the silence in my head that wants to jump to conclusions about your reaction to the pictures and it never hurts to write a review on any website about your amazing photographer and hopefully that amazing photographer will be me! Jessie Anne Photography, Memphis's Newborn Photographer...
So after reading all of these you have fallen in love with me and my images, and will allow me to help you fall in love with yourself and remember all the sweet little moments from Maternity to First Year for Years to Come! Contact Jessie Anne Photography today to book your Maternity and Newborn Session!
Oh and Make Sure to look for our booth at the Memphis Baby and Kids Expo on April 1st at the Agricenter!!
- Jessie Anne